Tips For Making Your Relationship Work

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For many people, one of the biggest keys in life for them is figuring out exactly what they can do (what they need to do!) in order to make their relationship work with their spouse or significant other; of course, this is a complicated issue with many layers - and for each couple (for each individual, for that matter), the exact answers to this issue will be different - but there are also a few specific things that any couple can keep in mind, and that will help them as they move through the process of making their relationship work.

Communication is the biggest key to making a relationship work, but while people seem to always hear this, they often are not given a totally clear picture of exactly what this means; in order to communicate effectively, the two people in the relationship must not only communicate by talking, but they must also communicate by listening! When the two people in a relationship learn to express things and also listen to things, they will be setting their relationship on the right path for it to thrive for a long time to come.

Realizing that the other person is not your identity is another big key; too many couples get in the bad habit of allowing their identity to exist solely inside of what their relationship with the other person is, but in order for a relationship to work, it must be "give and take," and in order for there to be "give and take," each person in the relationship must be able to maintain a strong identity within their own self.

And striving to have fun together is perhaps the single best thing a couple can do. Lots of couples tend to get in a place where each person takes everything so seriously that they never have fun, but having fun together is the rain that feeds the "relationship plant," allowing it to thrive, and as you continue to have fun together as the years pass, the two of you will continue to enjoy one another within a strong relationship - a relationship that works!